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It says in
James 1:2 - "Consider it pure joy, my
Brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds."
....To count our hurt,
pain and struggle as nothing but pure joy? As my parents were
Christians, and my Dad even a Pastor of our church, they knew
that verse very well. However, on the morning of the 4th of
December 1982 in Melbourne (Australia), the last two words on
the minds of my parents was "Praise God!". Their firstborn son
had been born without limbs! There were no warnings or time to
prepare themselves for it. The doctors were shocked and had no
answers at all!

The whole church mourned over my
birth and my parents were absolutely devastated. "If God is a
God of Love, then why would He let something this happen?
especially to dedicated Christians" My Dad thought I wouldn't
survive for very long, but tests proved that I was a healthy
baby boy just with a few limbs missing.
Understandably, my parents had
strong concern and evident fears of what kind of life I'd be
able to lead. The first big hurdle was for my parents to be at
peace and trusting that God was in control. It took a number of
months of tears, questions and grief before coming to term
within their own hearts. God provided them strength, wisdom and
courage through those early years and soon after that I was old
enough to go to school.
There were some people who
assumed that because of my physical disability that it meant
that I'd also be mentally disabled. The law in Australia didn't
allow me to be integrated into a main-stream school because of
my physical disability. God did miracles and gave my Mom the
strength to fight for the law to be changed. I was one of the
first disabled students to be integrated into a mainstream
school.
I liked going to school, and try
to live life like everyone else, but it was in my early years of
school where I encountered uncomfortable times of feeling
rejected, weird and bullied because of my physical difference.
It was very hard for me to get used to, but with the support of
my parents, I started to develop attitudes and values which
helped me overcome these challenging times. I knew that I was
different but on the inside I was just like everyone else. There
were many times when I felt so low that I wouldn't go to school
just so I didn't have to face all the negative attention. I was
encouraged by my parents to ignore them and to try start making
friends by just talking with some kids. Soon the students
realized that I was just like them, and starting there God kept
on blessing me with new friends.

There were times when I felt
depressed and angry because I couldn't change the way I was, or
blame anyone for that matter. I went to Sunday School and learnt
that God loves us all and that He cares for you. I understood
that love to a point as a child, but I didn't understand that if
God loved me why did He make me like this? Is it because I did
something wrong? I thought I must have because out of all the
kids at school, I'm the only weird one. I felt like I was a
burden to those around me and the sooner I go, the better it'd
be for everyone. I wanted to end my pain and end my life at a
young age, but I am thankful once again, for my parents and
family who were always there to comfort me and give me strength.
Due to my emotional struggles I had experienced with bullying,
self esteem and loneliness, God has implanted a passion of
sharing my story and experiences to help others cope with
whatever challenge they have in their life and let God turn it
into a blessing. To encourage and inspire others to live to
their fullest potential and not let anything get in the way of
accomplishing their hopes and dreams.
As I grew older God continued to
prepare my heart and teach me to seek Him. One of the first
lessons that I have learnt was not to take things for granted. I
had that wake up call around the age of twelve and realised just
how much I was blessed with. I take my foot for granted, my
family and all blessings that God had freely given and I still
complain? I came across;
Romans 8:28 - "And we know that in all
things God works for the best for those who love Him."
That verse spoke to my heart and
convicted me to the point where that I know that there is no
such thing as luck, chance or coincidence that these "bad"
things happen in our life. In;
James 1:3-4- "...know that the
testing of your faith develops perseverance.
Perseverance
must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not
lacking anything."
I had complete peace knowing
that God won't let anything happen to us in our life unless He
has a good purpose for it all. I completely gave my life to
Christ at the age of fifteen after reading John 9. Jesus said
that the reason the man was born blind was "so that the works of
God may be revealed through Him." I truly believed that God
would heal me so I could be a great testimony of His Awesome
Power. Later on I was given the wisdom to understand that if we
pray for something, if it's God's will, it'll happen in His
time. If it's not God's will for it to happen, then I know that
He has something better. I now see that Glory revealed as He is
using me just the way I am and in ways others can't be used.
I am now twenty-one years old
and have completed a Bachelor of Commerce majoring in Financial
Planning and Accounting. I am also a motivational speaker and
love to go out and share my story and testimony wherever
opportunities become available. I have developed talks to relate
to and encourage students through topics that challenge today's
teenagers. I am also a speaker in the corporate sector. For more
information on Nick's presentations go to "Nick's Ministry".
In recent years, I have learnt
to become independent and can now take care of all my personal
needs. I can do everything from brushing my teeth, combing my
hair, dressing up, taking care of my personal hygiene and even
shaving. I get around the house by jumpin' around and, outside
the house, I get around in an electric wheelchair. I love to
swim, fish and play soccer. I have a passion for reaching out to
youth and keep myself available for whatever God wants me to do,
and wherever He leads, I follow.
I have many dreams and goals
that I have set to achieve in my life. I want to become the best
witness I can be of God's Love and Hope, to become an
international inspirational speaker and be used as a vessel in
both Christian and non-Christian venues. I want to become
financially independent by the age of 25, through real estate
investments, to modify a car for me to drive and to be
interviewed and share my story on the "Oprah Winfrey Show"!
Writing several best-selling books has been one of my dreams and
I hope to finish writing my first by the end of the year. It
will be called "No Arms, No Legs, No Worries!"
You might think these goals are
too far-fetched. However, I believe that if you have the desire
and passion to do something, and if it's God's will, you will
achieve it in good time. As humans, we continually put limits on
ourselves for no reason at all! What's worse is putting limits
on God who can do all things. We put God in a "box". The awesome
thing about the Power of God, is that if we want to do something
for God, instead of focusing on our capability, concentrate on
our availability for we know that it is God through us and we
can't do anything without Him. Once we make ourselves available
for God's work, guess whose capabilities we rely on? God's!
"I can do all things through
Christ who strengthens me."
Philippians 4:13
God has a Great Purpose for your
life! As far as your unanswered prayers, remember that God is
Faithful. What are we to do when we are seeking but not finding?
Jeremiah 29:12- "Then you will
call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.
You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your
heart. I will be found by you," declares the Lord...
Take courage my friend for the
Battle is the Lord's and I urge you to keep striving for the
truth. For it is the truth that will set you free and the Peace
of God that surpasses all understanding will reign in your
heart. May the Lord Bless you as you diligently seek Him and
grant you Godly Wisdom and Strength through your journey.
If you know of an audience which
may benefit from hearing Nick's story please contact us at
lifewithoutlimbs@yahoo.com - Have a look and see if Nick is
speaking in your local area!
In Christ,
Nick
Vujicic
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